Webmichele's philosophy is elegantly simple: 'healing it forward. ' whether engaging with individuals, guiding loved ones, or anchoring the community, her unique. When a person engages grief and suffering, it breaks the heart open to joy and delight. Those who refuse to experience grief and loss tend to live small,. Webo'connor's upcoming book, the grieving brain, explores what scientists know about how our minds grapple with the loss of a loved one.