Webmy parents found out about the situation and while they agree that what ella did was wrong, they're begging me to still attend the wedding. They think that missing it. Websome days after the wedding, me and my brother talked, it wasn't mainly about him and his gf (now wife) but atleast we got to talk. He told me that his wife doesn't like my vibe. Webop has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I might be the asshole because i withdrew financial support for my brother’s wedding,. Webyou do not deserve my presence at your wedding and if my family truly understands how much hurt i endured during that time they will respect my decision. You do not get to. Webyour brother forced you to pick either him or your wife and for the sake of your home life you will have to pick the wife. Just as his brother is choosing to side with his own wife. Aita for not coming to my brother's wedding because of the fiance? i 23f cut off my 26m brother for dating someone i knew in middle school. Webaita for refusing to pay for my brother’s wedding after he excluded my wife?. Aita jar · original audio