Webthis morning i broke the news to my ex that i no longer wished her to be a distraction for my marriage and that it's time to cut loose. Weblot of things have happened since then my ex didn't contact me for 6 days no calls, no message i really thought that he was finally gone. But on 1 sept around 9pm. No contact should last for a. Am i the asshole for not wanting to break of contact with my ex even if my. Webwhile it can be nice to tell an ex your reasons, it's often futile as it is in this case when he's not listening to you, arguing with you, and finding additional ways (his mother, fake.